{"id":10537,"date":"2017-01-26T14:19:23","date_gmt":"2017-01-26T14:19:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sandler.dsstaging2.com\/case-study\/are-you-willing-change-your-selling-behaviors\/"},"modified":"2022-10-18T16:03:16","modified_gmt":"2022-10-18T16:03:16","slug":"are-you-willing-change-your-selling-behaviors","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sandler.com\/blog\/are-you-willing-change-your-selling-behaviors\/","title":{"rendered":"Are You Willing to Change Your Selling Behaviors?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>In his recent book, Change or Die, author Alan Deutschman claims that although we have the ability to change our behavior, we rarely do.&nbsp; In fact, the odds are nine-to-one that when faced with a dire need to change, we won\u2019t.&nbsp; Most smokers who are presented with a wealth of scientific data on the dangers of tobacco do not quit smoking.&nbsp; Our beliefs are what we feel in our gut and those beliefs are hard to change; we spent a lifetime developing and defending them.&nbsp; This explains why providing information rarely changes how people think or act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This also explains why your best presentation may have absolutely no positive effect on your prospect\u2019s desire to buy.&nbsp; And finally, this phenomenon explains why most salespeople keep shoveling information, features, benefits, and fancy presentations at prospects, even though those tactics don\u2019t cause people to buy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Albert Einstein said that imagination is more important than knowledge because people see the world through their imagination, not through facts and figures.&nbsp; Deutschman says the same thing in a different way, using terms like ideologies, conceptual frameworks, and belief systems.&nbsp; Whatever you call them, these are the mental structures that shape how we view the world.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Somewhere along the way, early in our sales careers, we come to view the selling world as a place where we must convince buyers to love our stuff by providing them with information, facts, figures, and compelling reasons to buy.&nbsp; Traditional sales training reinforces this notion by emphasizing the presentation as the most important step in the sales process.&nbsp; Somehow we forget that WE never bought anything based on a presentation; we buy things because we want them or need them, not because a sales person tells us they\u2019re great.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Would you like to make more sales?&nbsp; Try to make this change to your selling behavior: STOP talking about your features and benefits and STOP dumping extraneous information, brochures, and fancy PowerPoints on prospects.&nbsp; Wait as long as you can to tell the prospect anything about your company, your product, or your service.&nbsp; Spend the first fifteen minutes talking about the prospect.&nbsp; Find out his problems, concerns, fears, and desires.&nbsp; Make your process about your prospect, not about you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Now the problem with that is what we\u2019ve already said, it\u2019s not easy to change ingrained habits.&nbsp; First of all, it\u2019s hard to resist the temptation to impress our prospects with our knowledge, even though we know, intellectually, that people are not impressed with knowledge.&nbsp; Secondly, when a prospect asks a question, we believe that it\u2019s our duty to provide an immediate, detailed answer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Deutschman\u2019s answer to making a difficult behavioral change is a three-fold process:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><strong>Relate.<\/strong>&nbsp; Form a new relationship with a coach or a mentor who can inspire you and help you sustain your hopes. Support comes in many forms, often from different worlds that can offer different points of view.<\/li><li><strong>Repeat.<\/strong>&nbsp; The new relationship helps you learn, practice, and master the new skills you\u2019ll need to be successful.&nbsp; It also helps you create new beliefs about what you can accomplish.&nbsp; You\u2019re already performing at your current belief level; if you want to increase your production, you need new beliefs.<\/li><li><strong>Reframe.<\/strong>&nbsp; The new relationship helps you view your problem or situation from a completely different perspective.&nbsp; Example: You no longer try to overcome prospects\u2019 objections; you realize that the only person who can do that is the prospect himself.&nbsp; Therefore you learn a whole new process \u2013 reversing \u2013 wherein your response to an objection is just a question that will cause the prospect to resolve his own roadblock.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Recognize that you can change and definitely improve your sales performance.&nbsp; But it takes a concerted effort to change long-term, ingrained habits.&nbsp; A half-day get-motivated program won\u2019t do it.&nbsp; There are people in your industry making twice as much money as you by selling the same product to the same market as you.&nbsp; There\u2019s a reason, it\u2019s called behavior.&nbsp; Make a positive change to your selling behavior and you\u2019ll make a positive change to your income.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.sandler.com\/summit\"><strong>For more information on creating Vision Driven Success, join us for the 2017 Sandler Annual Sales and Leadership Conference in Orlando, FL, March 9 &amp; 10!&nbsp;<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In his recent book, Change or Die, author Alan Deutschman claims that although we have the ability to change our behavior, we rarely do.&nbsp; In fact, the odds are nine-to-one that when faced with a dire need to change, we won\u2019t.&nbsp; Most smokers who are presented with a wealth of scientific data on the dangers&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":167,"featured_media":10538,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"content-type":"","inline_featured_image":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1120],"tags":[1214,1111,1215],"class_list":["post-10537","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-blog","tag-sales-behavior","tag-self-development","tag-selling-behavior"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v26.6 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Are You Willing to Change Your Selling Behaviors? | Sandler Training<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"In his recent book, Change or Die, author Alan Deutschman claims that although we have the ability to change our behavior, we rarely do. 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